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Golden rules of dialogue
The ten golden rules of the dialogue.
* Know how to listen to and answer only when your spouse
has finished to speak. * Be slow to speak and think at first. * Say the truth
with love and exaggerate
nothing. * Do not use the silence to deprive your spouse. Explain the reasons of your hesitances. * Do not quarrel. Do not forget that it is possible to have a different
opinion without quarrelling for all that. * Be
kind in your answers. * Know how to recognize your
disadvantages. * Stop harassing your spouse, avoid annoying
him. * Do not criticize
him but to try to encourage him. * Try to understand before being understood, be tolerant, take in heart the interests of your spouse. S. Hatzakortzian (in rosee.org/josette )
From Sheri & Bob's Marriage Blog5 Simple Phrases to be avoidedAre you looking for a simple way to make your marriage better? Try saying these five phrases more often. Another thing you can do is to be willing to respond with a "yes" when your spouse asks "Will you do me a favor?" Four things you should avoid:
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